How often have you been looked down on by others?
Some people with success you admired would like to look down on others sometimes. They see you as an “inferior” person. Compare to how successful they are, you are not as good as them, which means you don’t have necessary talent to be one of them.
And later, you will find yourself that you believe them, and so when they said you are not “them”, you are powerless, you agree with them. And therefore, you lose yourself.
You don’t think you worth anything. You think of yourself as a complete loser, did not possess any power to change, you don’t believe yourself anymore, and let other people define you.
You start losing control of yourself, and let other people dominate you, till the end.
You eventually lose your self esteem, and it is comfortable for you to just “follow” them, even if they are hurting you, physically and mentally.
Do you want it?
Self esteem is your key to be more happy and successful
Self esteem is all about how you think about yourself, how you value yourself as a person. People who did not respect themselves will often not being respected by others.
If you have low self esteem, it often means that you allow yourself to be hurt by others. While you may think “it is how my life is”, you are also hurting someone who truly love you.
I’m not telling you to be arrogant, it is not my point. I want to tell you that if you don’t allow people to hurt you, if you want to get back a powerful life you already had, you have to take care of your self esteem.
How to bring back the power to yourself?
Here is the MP3 that I would recommend you to listen. This is actually a self hypnosis mp3 that can communicate with your unconscious mind, to allow you to think in a different way, and to build up and get whatever you want in your life.
Actually, a powerful mind is the best foundation to be a better you.